By the time you read this, it’ll be my oldest daughter Sasha’s fifth birthday. And thank God, too, because I’m sick of hearing about the plans for it. I’m not kidding. I think my wife Evi started talking about this shit in February. Over the months there were mentions of...
Evgeniya Does Stuff
I’m sick of writing about how my family is sick. I’m sure you’re sick of reading about it. But since I post daily, and this blog is a diary, and a diary tells what I did that day, and what I did was absolutely nothing because everyone is coughing up...
Evi’s and my favorite time of day is probably near the end, when we’re throwing on PJs and climbing into bed to play on our phones, read books, or simply talk.* After a long period of working, cleaning, chasing kids, and whatever else it takes to run a family, bedtime...
I was chatting up* an old comedian friend the other day, when the discussion turned to Facebook. We both pretty much agreed: we wanted out. Neither of us got really descriptive or in depth about why we wanted to leave. I think the operative phrase was “sucks balls”.** *Conversation starter:...
My wife Evi has put together an Easter Egg hunt in our backyard every year since Sasha was born. She once told me that she wants some kind of party that’s an annual event we’re known for. Like, how we spent three straight Thanksgivings at the Robinsons’, or three straight...
Evi has been working on her deck for over a month now, just slowly buying lumber and drilling it down a few pieces at a time. Until Saturday, she had done everything; I hadn’t so much as touched a screw in the entire process. I wouldn’t have minded chipping in,...
“My God, I am so exhausted.” It was 7:30 PM and Evi looked like she was about to collapse. Not only did our daughters make consistent, warlike attempts to wreck the house (after supposedly being too sick to go to school), Evi attended some two-hour webinar on her metaverse project,...
During a recent workday in our home office, Evi and I got into a discussion about how many continents there are. She pretty much automatically said “seven” but I had to count. “So Asia is one, then Europe, Africa, North America, South America, Central America–“ “Central America?!?” Evi interrupted. “That’s...
So my wife is building a deck. Yes, you read that right. Evgeniya, the love of my life, my delicate flower, the former fashion model, has started building a deck in our back yard. Okay, first off, here’s a piece of advice: never call my wife a ‘delicate flower’. She...
My dad bought some Girl Scout Cookies a week or so ago, which he’s mostly kept hidden in his bedroom. I don’t blame him; any cookies left out in the General Population area of our house would disappear faster than a dead oak in a woodchipper. I don’t have much...
There was a time when membership in Generation X meant you were young, wild, and carefree. Commercials for brands like Mountain Dew or Coors Light featured Gen Xers–replete with dreadlocks, piercings, and tattoos–snowboarding, bungee jumping, or skydiving while loud grunge music played. The obvious subliminal message was, If you drink...
My vision was foggy, as it always is when I first wake. Squinting my eyes in an attempt to focus, two things finally came to view: A smiling Baby Sasha, peeking in between the comforter we use and the pillow I usually have over my head while I’m sleeping. On...
Evi dropped her iPhone this week. Shattered the glass. At least she did the smart thing by immediately texting me the news while I was at work, so I could get all my facepalming and swearing done at the office. You know, for efficiency. My wife is one of the...
On top of the chest of drawers next to Evi’s side of the bed, I noticed a book she’d checked out of the Cape Coral Public Library. I think it was delivered to our local branch from another one specifically for her, as it was wrapped with a receipt-like paper...
The first time I ever heard the saying was in third or fourth grade. My mother, father, sister and I lived in Carper Apartments in Virginia Beach, Virginia, but Dad wasn’t home. We lived in a townhouse that faced the far end of the road, so I excitedly stared out...
Baby Sasha seemingly learns something new every day. I’d like to say she’s “early” or “ahead of schedule” but the truth is, I have no idea when the hell babies are supposed to do anything. Do they start walking at 10 months or five years? When are they supposed to...
Nearly two months ago, I uploaded a video to Facebook where Sasha and I talk and show off cuteness. Obviously, if you just clicked that link, you know I handled the former while Sasha took care of the latter. I think it’s safe to say we’ll never do that again....
One of these days I’ll finally get it through my thick skull that, no matter what time I go to bed, no matter what day it is, Baby Sasha will wake up about 6:30 AM and demand attention. This morning at 6:48, a full five hours and 48 minutes after...
Hurricane Irma blasted through Southwest Florida last month, causing damage, devastation, and grief to thousands of people. Not that I would know; I missed the whole thing. I dragged my wife and father into our minivan and got the hell out of the state. And yes, “dragged” is an appropriate...
One of my good friends, Greg Rooth, married the love of his life Barbra on October 16th, 2005. It was a beautiful beach wedding, and I of course received my invitation several months prior, which is when I figured out that October 16th, 2005 was a Sunday. An NFL Sunday....
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